And you shall know them by their works.
But don't decide which side is which by their names.
You will know them by their actions.
One side works so that everyone should have an opportunity to do something - get married, be nominated for an award, pee in whatever bathroom, be on television.
The other side already can - and has - done all those things.1 That side works so that only their group can get married, be nominated for an award, pee in a bathroom, or be on television.
Forget the labels for a second.
Are you working to give more people the same chances and opportunities... or to deny chances and opportunities to someone else?
1 This part cannot be emphasized enough.